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Sensitive Kids And The Holidays: Managing Disappointment And Excitement

Megghan Thompson
December 19, 2024•2 min read

The holiday season is upon us, and with it comes a flurry of festive parties and family gatherings.

For highly sensitive children, this time of year can be especially challenging. Their vivid imaginations conjure up visions of the perfect celebration, complete with harmonious relatives, dream gifts, and picture-perfect moments.

But when reality falls short of these elaborate expectations (as it often does), sensitive kids can find themselves drowning in disappointment and frustration.

If your child has ever had a meltdown at a holiday party because the gift wasn't quite right or the cousins weren't acting according to plan, you're not alone.

Highly sensitive children feel deeply and imagine thoroughly. They notice every detail and nuance, which can be both a blessing and a curse when navigating the unpredictability of holiday gatherings.

So, what can you do to help your sensitive child cope when their big dreams collide with less-than-perfect realities?

👉 Validate their feelings

👉 Let your child know that it's okay to feel disappointed when things don't go as imagined. Acknowledge their emotions without trying to talk them out of it.

👉 Help them adjust expectations

👉 Gently remind your child that parties are about being together, not everything being perfect. Brainstorm ways to find joy in the moment, even if it looks different than they pictured.

👉 Create a calming retreat

👉 Holiday parties can be overstimulating for sensitive kids. Scope out a quiet space where they can take a break if needed. A few minutes of alone time can work wonders.

👉 Debrief afterwards

👉 Once you're back home, give your child space to process their feelings about the party. Listen empathetically and help them reframe any challenging moments.

👉 Remember, your sensitive child isn't trying to be difficult. They're simply wired to feel and imagine intensely.

By meeting them with understanding and support, you can help them navigate the gaps between fantasy and reality - during the holidays and beyond.

If you're struggling to help your sensitive child manage big emotions and expectations, I invite you to book a call with my team.

We specialize in helping families break free from the meltdown cycle and find more joy in the journey of raising a highly sensitive child.

Book your call now.

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I help parents who are worried about managing their child’s explosive and out of control emotions to develop an individualized system to manage their kid’s explosive feelings when they don’t fit the examples in typical parenting books. I know you are a parent of a Highly Sensitive Child and are ready to stop scouring the internet for new strategies, throw out those traditional parenting books that don’t match your kid, and develop an individualized system to manage your kid’s explosive feelings.

Megghan Thompson, LCPC, RPT-S

I help parents who are worried about managing their child’s explosive and out of control emotions to develop an individualized system to manage their kid’s explosive feelings when they don’t fit the examples in typical parenting books. I know you are a parent of a Highly Sensitive Child and are ready to stop scouring the internet for new strategies, throw out those traditional parenting books that don’t match your kid, and develop an individualized system to manage your kid’s explosive feelings.

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